Tuesday, April 9, 2013

Melissa Dilan Back In Court



Melissa Dilan-Hernandez attended pre trial on April 9, 2013 and is scheduled to attend another pre trial on June 4, 2013.   

Melissa claims that she her ex fiance TJ are working their differences as parents despite they're no longer together.  I find this interesting since the aforementioned TJ has contacted this blog to indicate that there were further criminal acts that Melissa allegedly committed that have not as yet been revealed to the general public.  In deference to the victim I will keep these allegations confidential until such time as the victim chooses to reveal them himself.  

In the meantime, Melissa has been quite the busy girl.  First of all she has purchased quite a number of followers on her Twitter account.  over 25,000 to be more exact.  You can tell they were purchased because most of her followers were created in foreign countries and/or have a single tweet in their account.

Perhaps Ms. Dilan does not realize that her fake followers can incur phising, hacking, and even infecting her few real fans with spammy links.  Maybe she knows but doesn't care. I say this because I see her latest venture is a "magazine" called Hollywood Female Models magazine.

During her hectic fast paced life of pursuing Maklemore and buying fake Twitter followers, Melissa did have time to give me a shout out saying

All these ugly things 'bout me under blog posts...u only know part of my story, u don't know it all.  Mind yo 'biz & peace da eff out.

She also included this lovely visual presentation of her devotion to New Day New Page.  Thanks Missy!



For her children's sake I hope that Melissa will mature and that this case will end without too much more drama.  Maybe she can take a plea deal involving counseling and become the mother her children need.  Her young children have been been through enough without their mother going to prison.  Sadly Ms. Dilan did not have the foresight to see the potential outcome of her actions.   This points again to a woman who lacks maturity.  

I will keep you appraised of any future developments in this case and if TJ is willing to go forward with his criminal allegations I will report them here also.  



19 comments:

TJ sinavage said...

now melissas threatining to ruin my reputation online *sigh* its rediculous how im half her age and i have to be the one to tell her to grow up. heres what she said in an email..... **MELISSA-"I did not commit other crimes... like i said i wont trust you again believing you want to be my friend, thats it, trust is broken agai. Im sick and tired of your lil back stabbing games. I'm not doing anything to you and you keep fucking around with people's lives, what goes around comes around. I donn't publish out there all the shit you're going through with your charges, i dont talk about your bisexual life. now straighen up everythig with the lady cause u fucked it up, i know u did. ill never forget all the harm u caused to my life, you caused a lot of harm, u fucked my live over in so may different ways. donnt fucking call me unless its to see the baby.. and trust me i wont be sweet, now try me, try to fuck with me again, trust me there's a God ad a whole army out there of people that u have also hurt.. they won't forget. This explains too why i never took u back. ur a big time liar and deceiver, why would i want to ever date u again? hell no. i fucking tried too work things out with you, but u lied, you never reallystood up for me, fucking liar. just leave me the hell alone. knock urself out bitching about me now, show ur daughter how much u love her by fucking her mom up more. go ahead. u got so many problems with my supposedly committig crimes? then fuckig apply for custody, go ahead, show me ur the best dad." Most of the allegations in this yahoo email message are untrue and it goes back and fourth like this. (what a mouth)

Anonymous said...

TJ, I'm glad to see that you have taken responsibility, and I sorry that it really does seem that Melissa, though she's thirty, is still immature. This gives way to the idea that Dr Phil was wrong when he said your brain wasn't mature enough to make decisions. If you still have an interest in the Marine Corps, get your GED. Once we do finish the draw down and get out of afghanistan, please do try to enlist. I feel you would make a great Marine someday.

Anonymous said...

This woman is so damn crazy. It's sad she has two sons she has not seen in two years. The poor daughters have to live with this crazy lady! Tj you need custody and you need to live at home so your parents can help you! Her immature actions are harming you and those children so badly and the worst part is she is 100% in denial!!! She needs to be sterelized...she talks about how she didn't seek the teenager out well guess what there's a lot of pedophiles that didn't start with the intention either. She just craves sex and drama and welfare. Living in a hotel is not okay!!!

Leah Kennedy said...

TJ - When I was 16 I dated a boy much like you who was 17 as well. These days kids with divorced parents and the wrong friends end up getting into some trouble, I know I did.

This woman, Melissa, there is something majorly wrong with her, severe brain damage.

MELISSA IS NOT SUITED TO RAISE THOSE OR ANY KIDS

Please do not forget that.
She does not have the ability to think things though, look at how she talks to you, she is too wrapped up in her own life.

And just for my curiosity, why does she talk like that like a Russian mail order bride that spoke Spanish as a first language, lol, and a country twang on top of that.

Don't lie for her anymore or yourself tell the true story.

Everyone wants to know what the things on the card are that Dr phil is talking about.

Leah Kennedy said...

My guess is Meth, or perhaps crack.

Jesy Tan said...

As a 17 year old girl about to be 18 I think that Melissa messed up her life as well as this boys life. I admit I agree about love but at this age I'm still not sure What love really is, I know its a feeling but I have a lot of years ahead of me to find out. I feel bad for T.J , I can't imagine myself in his shoes at 18 going in and out of court & bet its not a cake walk on both sides. I think Tj was only looking for the mother he never had in his life and Melissa was just looking for love that her ex ex husband lacked to give her. I pray for both of you to get this done and over with; may God help you both. I think this was a crime Melissa knew & could of, should of, but did not avoid it. For my age 17 is the age to think about ACTS, Collage, sports, boys (my age), partying, & being a CARE FREE TEEN but she took that away from him by poisoning him with lust.

Anonymous said...

I still think TJ is the loser in this whole situation Leave Melissa alone!!!!!!!!!! I can tell by the Dr. Phil interview that TJ & his Family are wackos anyway. fat asses! ~ I support Melissa thru * thru..

Anonymous said...

I know who that Tj is and he never has spoken of all the things he's done. His old high school classmates, neighborhood friends,cops,and teachers know how much of a liar he is. Just do a round check in person and ask how innocent he is. I don't think Melissa was the only person he slept with that was way way much older than he was. People in his neighborhood know that when he was like super young before he met her he a did a lot of stuff (baaad). It was on the news. I think on channel 10. I looked him up and saw a new mugshot as well, so he must have gone to jail after they separated.

Christian Pathfinder said...

If someone knows Melissa facebook or e-mail hope will pass this information to her : If I WAS HER I WILL LOOK FOR A GOOD TEAM OF LAWYERS TO SUE DR. PHIL PROGRAM FOR DEFAMATION AND OTHERS BECAUSE DURING THE PROGRAM , SOMEONE IN THE PROGRAM AND THE PROGRAM PORTRAIT HER AS A PEDOPHILE , THING THAT IS A BIG CRIME NOTHING TO DO WITH CONSENSUAL SEX WITH AN A SIX MONTH SHORT AGE OF CONSENT MALE, NOTHING TO DO WITH HELPING THAT PERSON AND THE PUBLIC TO PORTRAIT HER AS A PEDOPHILE .
PEDOPPHILE IS Pedophilia by definition is a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children, generally age 11 years or younger, notice PREPUBESCENT AGE 11 OR YOUNGER the guy was 15 1/2 .

PLEASE IF SOMEONE READS THIS INFORMATION PASS IT TO HER .

Christian Pathfinder said...

TJ IS A COWARD CRYSTAL CLEAR. HAVING A KID WITH A WOMAN REGARDLESS HIS BRAIN CAPACITY HE AS A MAN SHOULD PROTECT THE MOTHER OF HER KID, MALES DO NOT HAVE THE BALLS JUST FOR DECORATION !!!!!

Anonymous said...

Alright folks this is one of the first things that pops up when u google Melissa so here it goes: I know them both... and if you have watched 16 and pregnant this is not the first or last 17 year old father... she didn't go to jail... As a matter of fact she was not ordered to register as a sex offender. Not surprisingly, he's currently in custody for the second time ever since they taped that show. Just look up his name. He's not the only the one who had a runaway history in that family. I will obviously protect the name of that other kid. Second, there are many teens who have suceeded as parents, so frankly, just because Tj's dad allowed the relationship to go on for so long without doing something about it doesn't mean that Melissa has to be held accountable for Tj's decisions ever since he turned 18. He wil soon turn 20 and he's doing nothing to stay out of jail. Sources told me that even Dr. Phil offered him the capital to get his Ged and he totally did nothing about it at the time. It is Melissa who has custody of their child and has never opened a child support case, even when I have strongly encouraged her to do so.

Anonymous said...

Everybody blames Melissa, I do too. But I don't consider tj to be the innocent boy robbed of his virginity and rape victim kind of person. When a teenager bears a child, he or she gets adult status, at least for healthcare and medical decision making. I as a physician need to ask consent for procedures from a teenager's parent but I could get consent directly from the teenager if he or she has a child. If you have a child, you are mature enough for anything because you have stepped into adulthood (willingly or inadvertently). I don't care about what the law says, I think tj is just as guilty and responsible for the mess. He in addition threatened and ruined the same lady that he slept with and decided to have a child with. I think he has psychiatric issues that need to be addressed. He is not capable of marine duty or fatherhood duty. If I was the judge, I would give neither of the two custody of the daughter.

Jordyn Alexis said...

TJ, this is for you. I'm not attacking you but you said yourself she was a great mother and treated her kids the way every child should be treated, and how you were not. Now, regardless of your opinion or mine, if you are as mature as you say you are, why would you want to put your childs mother in prison? my dad won custody when i was 15 and i have 5 younger siblings, and it messed us all up more than i could even begin to say. yes i believe that children need both their parents. but they especially need their mother. and if shes as good and as tentative to her children as you had once given her credit for, you wouldnt go turn her in for anything. Dont you think one day your child will resent you for that? Also, you are still a kid and you dont want to do this on your own. Hate her as much as you like but you two as a team will succeed far further than yourself. She said in the message above that you could still see the baby. Shes not keeping you from your child so shes not doing you any wrong. Are you airing out your dirty laundry for the publicity? for your 15 minutes of fame? shape up, be a man and keep you damn business to yourself. this is messing up so many lives. you have no idea what its like to be a mother seperated from your children for a day, let alone 15 years. and you have a pretty good idea of what its like to grow up without a mother. so ggive that baby a better life than you and dont do anything to harm its mother. you gotta grow up and think about someone other than yourself. im 16 years old and i'll tell you that youre selfish if you keep harming the situation. seems like neither of you are fit to be parents. stick it out, you have your dad there offering to help so take his help and hope that that women doesnt have to go to jail. that would be heartbreaking for her children.

lala lova said...

Paedo. Anyone who has sex with a kid is a sex-offender. This case just proves that we are warped when it comes to the sex of the child, because if this was an older male, younger girl situation, this woman would have NO support

Anonymous said...

This is wrong on so many levels; almost 100% of the time, these kinds of relationships are unstable, unhealthy, and devastating to the child/teen. I know this from experience. I was 16 and in a relationship with a 26 year old; looking back, I am greatly upset that no adult in my life tried to intervene. I was vulnerable to abuse. He abused me both physically and mentally for five years. I wish I never met him. He was my first, so I had virtually no idea that how he was treating me was not healthy. When we split, it took me 3 - 4 years of psychotherapy to recover from that. People like my ex and her need to spend at least 10 years in Prison and be publicly embarrassed. This is not okay at all. Any adult into dating teens and children are mentally sick. Humans are not fully mentally developed until they are 25, so don't tell me that its real love. Teens and children are easy to manipulate and influence.

Joey Shivery said...

Melissa probably wrote the anonymous comments bashing TJ herself...or put some other teen up to it.

Anonymous said...

Damn 5 years of abuse? U were an adult by then. Lol, so you're just simply dumb for staying with the abuser.

Anonymous said...

Anonymous, you have obviously never been abused. Consider yourself blessed. Very blessed. I was abused and I stayed. For many different reasons. I am actually quite intelligent, educated and most abuse victims are the same. Try learning compassion. It costs you nothing.

Anonymous said...

I looked tj and just on the public records search there are 14 things regarding him one of which he was order him to take a drug and alcohol evaluation plus pay 125 in fees for it. he has also been arrested and charged with auto burglary. So to those who say he's the good guy look again. I'm not saying Melissa is innocent. In some states like Ohio were I live the age of consent is 16 others 18 but have the Romeo and Juliet law. Do I think she was wrong? Yes I do think so. Do the courts thinks so? No because they didn't see it that way. Now that being said with him having a lengthy record It shows as far as parents in the courts eyes who the better parent or lesser of the two evils depending on who you ask. She has custody he don't therefore it shows the courts think Melissa is better parent.